Editor's Note: If your romantic life needs a boost, you could do what Laura Zam did and try tantric sex lessons. What is tantric sex? Glad you asked. Zam explains it all here.
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When I first started dating Kurt in my early 40s, I faked that I was enjoying sex. I was trying to impress him, launching into activities I knew he liked. But once we got married when I was age 46, I finally admitted (to myself) how bad sex was. All the activities that were supposed to produce orgasm—use of fingers, tongue, or penis—caused pain or felt like unbearable nerve frenzy. Though climaxes did rarely happen, the path leading there was a frustrating mystery. This was true even when I tried by myself.
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