How Do You Like It? This Is the Age of Sexual Exploration

There is an apocryphal story about Empress Wu, from the Tang Dynasty in China, who, after she came to power, would order visiting dignitaries to perform oral sex on her. While there is much to unpack about how history treats women who seize power, when I read this in the book, She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner, all I could think was that getting oral sex is so rare that you basically have to be the Empress of China to make it happen.

Some women felt shocked about the amount of detailed information available but unknown to them.

One of the most-read stories on NextTribe is called “Help, I Don't Want to Have Sex with My Husband,” so when a friend at NextTribe mentioned that her new, talented lover had learned his technique from She Comes First, we knew we wanted to gather and talk about sex. One of the things I treasure about the NextTribe community is that we are all ready to be real and open with each other, knowing that by sharing our truths, we become smarter and stronger in the world.