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These European Judges Don’t Think You Need Sex

If a trip to the doctor resulted in the end to your sex life, would you sue for restitution?

A court in Portugal said sure, you deserve payback – but not as much as if you were younger.

Here’s the recap: 1n 1995, a Portuguese woman, aged 50, was diagnosed with cysts in her Bartholin glands which lubricate the vagina. Doctors operated on her, but sliced through a nerve, leaving her numb, incontinent–and unable to have sex.

It took nearly 20 years for her case to make it to court, during which time the woman’s husband left her and she was unable to work. Finally, in 2014, she was awarded about $200,000, but the hospital appealed, and a court agreed, saying – for real, now: “…[T]he plaintiff was already 50 years old by the date of the surgery and had two children. So she was at an age in which sexuality does not hold as much importance as with younger people, becoming less important with the advancement of age.”

Let’s unpack this: Why would someone think a woman of a certain age doesn’t require sex? Seems to be a matter of:

  • She’s not worthy of pleasure, being “old” and all
  • She’s past procreation age, so intercourse might as well be off limits

The reaction to the appeal being granted was swift and fierce, and a court reversed the decision, awarding the woman more money. But honestly, no amount comes close to paying for 20 years of being told your sexuality doesn’t matter. There just aren’t enough cuss words for that level of bull.

–Amy Keyishian

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After 18 years of celibacy, I finally, at the age of 59, have a sex life again. Having heard that if you don’t use it, you lose it, I spoke to my OB/GYN as soon as I knew it was a possibility; she said everything should be fine and to be sure to have lubrication aids. She was right, everything still worked, and as for lubrication aids, there is no need. To say that a woman is sexually finished after the age of 50 is ridiculous!

Yeah! Good for you. We agree completely.

Plus incontinence.

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