May 15, 2022 by Kate Stone Lombardi · Family

Hey, Over-Invested Moms: Your Grown Child’s Romance Is None of Your Business

You welcome your kids’ significant others into your home. You grow fond of them. Here’s why you shouldn’t get too attached.

Editor's Note: If you're debating on how involved to be in your child's love life, this story will help guide you. Kate Stone Lombardi figured out where to draw the line years ago so that she doesn't get caught up in enabling her adult child.

I felt comfortable with this new guy by our second dinner out together. After a weekend hiking trip in upstate New York, I knew. I really liked Jack. He’s smart, thoughtful and funny—not to mention those piercing blue eyes. I could easily imagine a future with Jack in my life.

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